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I been  email  and  IM  a guy  that  doens't  live  near me he  in another  state   it  been little over  2  weeks and now he  tells  me  he  loves me  How  do I  know  if  he  telling  the  trueand is it  possible to fall in love  with  someone  you  nevery  met


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DB Lady
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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

It's difficult to know that the man is honest about his feelings for you.  People say they fall in love with the person they have never met.  I don't believe in that.  You can only love a person if you know him.  You don't really know him via computer.  You are in love with the idea of being in love.  You seem infatuated because this person told you he loves you.

     The best thing to do is to meet this person personally and see if you still feel the same way. A lot of times people misrepresent themselves when they communicate online.  Some people lie about themselves and if you believe them, you may end up disappointed and hurt towards the end.

    So please be careful.  Get to know this person first before you conclude that you love him.
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I suppose it is possible to fall in love with someone who have never met, but it is stupid [no offense], risky, and can be dangerous.
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No, no, and no again. Obviously he/she is a nut case. Do not send or accept e-mails from that address again. It's for your own protection.
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you can look at it two ways.

you could fall in love just with his personality but you dont what his habits are or what kind of life he is leading and how he acts.if i were you i would try to meet him in person and not on the computer bc you never know..it could be a 60 year old or 20 or something so my advice....try to meet him

so be careful and good luck with everything!!
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Surrender.  Surrender.  But don't give yourself away . . . .

   ~ Cheap Trick ~

Online relationships build quickly, because there is an overly amplified feeling of intimacy.  You can say anything you want.  They can't see your shortcomings.  They cannot sense your insecurity.  You feel more alive, because they cannot really judge you ~ only what you choose to present to them.  And they are doing the same with you.  I would tell him that you like what you know about him so far, but you don't know him well enough to love him yet.  Ask him if he wants to meet you in a very public place with lots of people around to keep you safe.  Now, since you live far away from each other, this may just be a fantasy for him.  He is enjoying the closeness you share online and telling you that it makes him feel love for you.

Either way, never tell someone that you love them if you don't.  If his telling you he loves you makes you uncomfortable, then you might want to end the chatting.  If you were smart, then this person doesn't know where you live.  Be safe.
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