Help with Hamtaro Nintendo SP game

I don't know the answer. But try checking out a game forum. You'll likely find the answer there. Good luck.

Do you mean Ham Red? If so, you don't have to. Talk to the small transparent ham in front of the Ham Ranger show entrance, then say 'perskie' in front of that large painting with a larger transparent ham in it in Boo Manor. If you don't know 'perskie', go to the highest story of Boo Manor and talk to the first transparent ham you see.

You don't. Go to Boo Manor. Inside Boo Manor there will be a sad picture of a ham-ham. That hamster is the mom of the little boy by the staidium. tell her the word on the bottom of the list (which i forgot!) Then she will turn in to ham red and perform the show.