Help Me Not Feel So Alone

can someone tell me if she has experiences chronic insomnia---just a total inability to go to sleep at all and how it was handled. I have been on every drug there is and almost nothing has had any more than a short life and I have no idea how to handle not sleeping. Do I pretend I work to shifts and sleep only three hours on something? Do I just stay up for several days and sleep only one out of every 4. I don't sleep at all. I have seen that drs and nurses have a difficult time understanding that concept. They want to tell me that I sleep, I just don't realize it. I don't sleep. I am up and down and walking around. What do people do besides the usual healthy sleep habits and meditation, counting backward, drugs (that don't work for me), meletonin, valarian, sleep clinics? My address is abbey3211@dontgotmail.com. Any help will be appreciated if it doesn't mimic what has already been told to me and which I have already tried.

And to answer Cheryl's question, yes. I will feel tired and ready to go to bed, lie down and immediately feel a rush. Brain opens up and every part of me says "good morning"---almost every night. And because of that, I began feeling afraid to go to sleep. It is so nice to read that other people experience this and I am not alone. I have felt alone and scared.


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SurprisedI hope you are not lonely.  Strong-willed, intelligent, unable to "settle" into the "status quo" means we can find ourselves looking at life as an "outsider".  When we have too much disappointment, we may "shut down" or refuse to continue.  We again look in the same place, repeatedly, expecting to find what is needed....refusing to go on as usual...UNTIL ABLE TO GRASP WHAT HAS HAPPENNED!  Worse, is when we can not rest.  I had 6 weeks of night insomnia.  Underlying anxiety, (holidays with family changes, anniversary of son's death,  my birthday...) however anxiety did not equal insomnia nor overwhelming loneliness.  MY EXPECTATIONS  not grounded in REALITY left me so detached - sleep was replaced with restlessness... until I could ACCEPT my life's turns and then redefine my relationships .  Understanding, Acceptance, Reset Compass.  Peace!  Sleep!  Joy!


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I also have trouble falling asleep. I lost my wife to cancer 6 months ago and tore my rotator cuff in my shoulder and had surgery.. All this has led to not sleeping well at night.. I go to bed tired after watching TV but cannot fall asleep and I am up all night.. I take Ambien, but it does not really help me. I think I had some sleep,  maybe two hours , but really don't know. I do not have answers,, maybe that morning cup of coffee or a glass of wine at night will keep me awake.  I have a lot on my mind due to what I am going through.. Any help out there....??


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You might be on the border of depression.  listen to me, I have been their.  The first thing you do is stop building that wall between yourself and the world.  Read The Females Guide.  It is a bible for many women.  It helps them fuind themselves in every way.  It is not about the bible or anything close to that.  Just look for the book and it will work wonders.  The Female bible, or the Female guide to... By Teresa D. Katz

T D Katz, books

It helps so many women renew themselves and may even pospone menapause for a few years. 

 

 


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