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Im very confused by my good friend. First of all, I am 21, he is 22. We've been friends for two years and everything was fine. I had a crush on him but since he had a girlfriend, I didn't pursue it. He was also a boy I went to had my own boy trouble.

 It was never bad or awkward. He always tod me how amazing my body was and so on, but it was just nice compliments. Then in December he asked if he could see my body, in photos. So because I liked him SO much, I took photos and showed him. I was scared to see him back  at school in January but everything was fine. He had broken up with his girlfriend (not because of me though) and we went out on dates and flirted and we fooled around twice. Never had sex, but just touched each other and so on. And on my birthday he said he was busy studying but that we would have a raincheck for sex, which obviously made me SO happy. Spring break came and once he gets back, he told me last week that he ' sort of started to see somebody.' I was obviously sad but I remained calm. He then said that he was unsure but its always nice to meet new friends. He then asked why we never had sex and I said it was because back in December when he asked to see the photos, he said he didnt want to get in my pants, plus he had class. He said that he would of ditched class. He then tossed me green beads and told me now that I had green beads like Mardi gras I had to show him my boobs. I laughed it off, and then he talkedto me about sex tapes and how I could trust him because he was always so private about my photos. He also asked me if I had slept with anybody recently.

After we hung out I got  to thinking and i texted him asking why he wanted to know why we didnt have sex and he responds with " I didnt mean to offend you, sorry if I did. I was just curious" and I sa

id no I am not offended, I was just curious because I did not reject it. You left the bedroom and washed up and said you had to go to class, thats why we didnt have sex. I never said I wouldnt. Then he was silent on the text messaging and I responded an hour later saying that I was sorry if I made things awkard and he said no I hadnt but he had to run and we'd talk about this soon! Then a few days ago I noticed he hadnt been online or on facebook or myspace since the 1st and I asked if he was busy or if something was wrong and he said that this week was intense and he'd be around after Sunday.

So where do we stand? Does he like me or just curious why we didnt have sex? Where do we stand, does he still want to hook up with me or was I rejected


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
It's clear that you really love that guy and you want him to be your close intimate boyfriend..... No offence please but I am not sure he see it in the same way.... It seems that he wishes not to have any commitment to you (that explains why he meets other girls) and prefers to have some fun (and sex) with you.   That will lead to strange relations and I am afraid that you won't like it (and won't accept it).  My best advice is: Discuss that matter with him, if you reach mutual undestanding that's OK but if you don't better move on (if you stay it's a recipe for heartbreaks).
Best regards,


  


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i think it seems like he might like somebody else. i think he still likes you but is afraid to take the relationship any further because he always likes someone else and he wants to keep the playing field opened. sometimes guys are really hard to understand. it kind of seems like he is trying to avoid you a little bit. if he doesnt talk to you soon then you need to talk to him. you can't wait for him to make up his mind forever. he needs to tell you where you stand with eachother instead of avoiding you.



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