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Help a 14 year old girl out

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           i have this boyfriend devin whom i am currently with he loves me but i dont love him i lie when i tell him i do and i wanna break up than i have my ex boyfriend whom i love and he loves me back we broke  up cause he was having a bad time at home but i want to be with him but he is moving far away who should i chose?


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Try not to lie to him.    Your x might be best for distance relationship.


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Cheychey,

I am a the Mom of a 19 year old, so of course I need to say up front that I think you are too young to have a boyfriend...especially one that you would say I love you to. That being said, I understand that you are growing up and that your feelings are very real to you. As for your current boyfriend, telling him the truth will be best for both of you. It will save more heartbreak down the road. As for your ex that you care about, maybe you could write to him and remain friends until you are older. You have the rest of your life to worry about boys, I suggest you spend time with girlfriends and your family. You will be grown up before you know it. I wish you the best!


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well first u have to tell ur boyfriend the truth that u don't love him cause ur only making ur self unhappy and for ur x if u really think u love him then try a long distance relationship (but if ur the jealous type or if he's the jealous type then it's going to hard for both u)


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live it try 2 love it and u will be ok

i dont wana judge u but u are playin with the fire here,ppl feelin are not easy thn 2 deal with,and its very important not 2 lie on the ppl u care about or at least they care about y,so the  truth is the best thn 2 do all the time wat ever will happen after sayin it,just say it caz u will be honest and u own that 2 the ppl who loves y,so just be honest my frnd and am sure every thn gona be clear 4 y,and dont be so selfish(sry)but from ur words it seems u think just about ur self(sry again)its not all about ymu know u are talkin about ppl hearts............sry really sry but its hard 2 hear the truth.gd luck


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hey girl. well, if you really love some one...and they move, you will make it work. some way some how. but i mean you are 14, so are you sure your in love?


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