so my fiance is pissed cuz my ex and i are still good friends. he was fine with it till like a month ago, when he went threw my phone and seen that i said its ok hun, if you need someone to talk to im always here for you, love ya....which is what i say to all my friends when they are having troubles. i mean, were exes for a reason, we dont like each other like that, we dated cuz we got along and were so close, but we just wernt good together, we didnt care for each other like that. we dated to see if there was more feelings than just friends, but there wasnt, so we broke it off and remained friends. [that was over a year ago] and my fiance and i have been together for a year. and now hes saying i have to choose between them, and i gave up my friends in a past relationship, and nothing good comes from that, i mean its not like ive cheated or anything like that, i never have on anyone, yet my fiance wants me to choose. i think this is rediculous. and my friend and i seen each other once in the past year, and talk like 4 days a month...well sometimes more, but its only texting saying hey how are you, and thats it really. and when we dated we never had sex or anyhting like that. i dont understand why my fiance is doing this. there is nothing to worry about, ive told him that over and over. ive told him that he is the only one for me, and thats true. what would you do if you were me, what should i do? i told him i wouldnt say i loved him or call him hun ever agian, and he was ok with that but now hes trying to get me to choose.
