My spouse snores and has to get up early, so goes to bed at 10:PM. I sleep on the couch, so I can get to sleep. Our child sleeps in the only bedroom downstairs. My spouse doesn't want to have sex upstairs,away from the T.V. & is also uncomfortable having sex in the living room where our child could see &or hear when stepping out of their room. We are lonely & frustrated & have 'dried' up. I suggested an O.T.C. like K.Y. jelly & get nowhere. HELP!