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my gf and i have been dating for almost 6 months. for the past month we have been having a couple of rough times , shes threated to leave me, and her parents hate me even though they have not met me. her and i often say we want to be together forever but i cant tell if shes telling the truth. i need help ASAP please help please


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Her parents hate you without having met you because you make their daughter unhappy.  I realize that's not fair but as a parent that's what I think is happening.

You don't give much info and you don't ask a specific question. You want help with what? You don't tell us what behavior you are doing or what she is doing, so how can we give advice?

Perhaps you are better off apart.

 

Well you don't say exactly what it is that you want help with. You say that you two have been going through some rough times, so take it you've been arguing. I don't know what kind of situation you're in, but something that every relationship needs is communication. Have you two talked about you're issues? If not then I would start talking. As for the parents, well, you've been dating their daughter for almost six months and they STILL haven't met you? Meeting the parents can be uneasy but its one of those things that have got to be done. That's probably one of the reasons why they don't like you because you haven't made the initiative to meet them. Someone dating their daughter for that long should have done so by now, because in a way it kinda sends a negative message about you if you don't. I also agree with LindaRuth, they don't like you because you make their daughter unhappy. Or it could be that they see that you have a negative influence on her.

I would talk things out with your girl, and if you two stay together, then I would meet her parents ASAP.  

 

1.  First thing you might do is think about taking her folks out to dinner on your next date.  That would put you all on neutral grounds and give you  all a chance to get to know each other.  Bring the Mother a corsage. 
Women love flowers.  

                                                                                

2.  I don't understand your thinking your girlfriends parents hate you if they have never met you.  Could be it is an easy way for her to break up with you?

      

 

1.  First thing you might do is think about taking her folks out to dinner on your next date.  That would put you all on neutral grounds and give you  all a chance to get to know each other.  Bring the Mother a corsage. 
Women love flowers.  

                                                                                

2.  I don't understand your thinking your girlfriends parents hate you if they have never met you.  Could be it is an easy way for her to break up with you?

      

 
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it's common when a child vent to the mum a negative frame is place around the partner, if she never talks about you in a positive way then there is no balance to the negative or even making the positive out way the good.

Go see a NLP practitioner to help shift yours and her level of thinking and remove negative anchors.

Ron
Massage therapist/NLP practitioner/Hypnotist

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