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Guys who cheat

My friends and I know a lot of guys who cheat on their girlfriends. We don't get it. Why would they be in a relationship at all if they are just going to cheat?


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I am your worst nightmare. An intelligent smart arse.

because a lot of men think with their little head instead of their big one


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let's face it, the devil is working overtime now days and we are weak....ALSO if women would stop helping them cheat it wouldn't be an option would it?


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The guys that cheat either:  weren't planning to, but the opportunity presented itself and did cheat, or they are just interested in sleeping with many women.

The first type made a mistake and realize it.  They might learn from it.

The second type are in a relationship not for sex but for a variety of other reasons.  For companionship, or they can't be intimitate with women they actually love, to feel safe, for prestige, to look more attractive to other women because the look more stable and dependable, other women notice them more especially women interested in sex, they like sex with lots of women, etc....

This sort of thing is probably going to happen more and more often for both men and women.  Mainly because dating rituals are no longer really practices, and serial instant relationships abound.

 


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Sometimes men like having a stable relationship in their lives even though they go looking for sex in other places. Having a girlfriend has its advantages and some men (who are creeps!!!) want to enjoy both worlds. A stable relationship and some extra excitement on the side.


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i suppose it depends on alot of factors, like age, maturity, the relationship status, if it's a marraige, or a  bf gf thing the length of the relationship, the trust issus. i imagine there is alot to do with just the one issue when it comes right down to it or therapist would be out of jobs. but guy's who cheat just to do it have no excuse if they have been in a long term relationship, those are the one's you gotta sit down with and get to the bottom of the problem with, if it's a short term guy, kick him to the curb, cause he's one of those who will continue to do it to you every chance he get's, so if you know of such a guy that's doing it to a friend, tell her right now, cause he is not worth her getting her feelings hurt in the long run. she doesn't need to invest anymore of her heart in such a guy. find her a better one now gals.


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