Guy problem. please help!

PLEASE HELP! I recently started talking to an old best friend of mine. And he was saying how "I understand him" and how I "Complete him". we've always had a certain "thing" for each other and now he suddenly admits to it but in a way i didnt expect. "I'm so in love with you, Emily". and I like this other guy. and he likes this other girl who is using him and he realizes that now and thanks me but now he wants me. and cant stop thinking about me. cant get me out of his head. what do I do?

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Whatever you do, DO NOT DO IT!!! IF you are really good friends do not mess that up because you will never be able to get back how ya'll was. Its not worht it just because you both have so much love for each other. Let that love be that love because there is nothing like a good friend that you love dearly.
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Love your life.

follow your heart, not your head. you will always try to rationalize your decision later and your heart and the happiness you may feel is worth taking the risk
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beachgal
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Both of you need to drop the dead weight before you can have anything together, but I'm not sure it sounds like that's what you want.  If you want something else, you need to be honest with him and tell him.  It is really that simple.
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jazzi
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Its never too late to ask.

Go with your "gut feeling," or let your conscience be your guide. No one knows BUT you. If the responders to this query gave you an answer and it wasn't to your liking, you'd back here with your mouth stuck out. This way is best. So what if you make the wrong choice? You can always start over. Good luck, I have a feeling you'll be just fine.
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Maur57
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Learn to be a good listner.

If you are in love with the guy you are with then tell him so.  If not and you want to rekindle your relationship with him then do so.  Don't be on the rebound because he is being used.  Be his friend to help him through this. tough time.
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