No!!! i think it is healthy to have your own space, one weekend a month to have his own space and see his friends what is wrong with that? maybe you should do the same?? too many people devote ALL their time together never having free time alone and this cause's friction. i think at least this guy is straight with you and you know where you stand, once a month is good i think you should take that time also and plan some stuff for yourself too, not sitting waiting for him to get back..