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Great Singe Guy who doesn't want to be single

You know I read over all this great advice, but I notice something; it's all for women. Where is the advice for the nice single guy that cannot get a date?

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I don't know where the other advice is, but mine is right here:

Women outnumber good eligible men by a good margin.  Make yourself available and don't lie anymore than you have to. Go out and do things that interest you that women also like to do.  This gives you common things to talk about while you get to know each other when you meet a stranger.  Don't go for dates as an objective, go for getting to know people.  A friend you don't hit on can recommend someone that might be looking for you.  If you hit on a fairly unknown woman, this will almost never happen.

Having women as friends is a good way to meet new women, and they can tell you what you need to do to be more attractive to other women.  A really good friend can be an invaluable coach if you take her advice.


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even though the sun is so powerful there is always half of the earth that is not lit up.

maybe b/c more women r on the computer than men.  If ur looking for a date then get of the computer go get a nice haircut and go to a club or bar and get 1.  Get some fone #s and ask some pretty women out.

GET OFF THE COMPUTER!


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Live simply, love generously, care deeply,

speak kindly, leave the rest to God.

Hi,

     You can get a date through these avenues:

1.  Through your church.

2.  Through your hobbies.  If you like hiking, join a group for hiking.

   If you like to play golf, there are women members.

   If you like to go dancing,  you can find one who needs a partner,  I don't know how old you are, but ballroom dancing is fun and there are ladies who may need a partner.

  If you like to workout, join an exercise club like the 24 hour fitness.

 3.  Your local newspaper, go look in the Personal Ad section.  This is better because the people on the ad are usually living in the same area.

  4.  On line dating.  E-Harmony, Match.com, Singlesnet.com are few examples.

   So, try any one of these.  Hopefully you'll meet a nice lady who eventually be your soulmate.  Good luck to you.


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Fool me once,

shame on you!!

Fool me twice,shame on me!

ok,i'll tell you what i like in a man!i like guys who are smart and have a sense of humor and are not lazy,and of course who are not cheap!

so,treat a lady to flowers or chocolates..

where can you find a lady?at church,go to friend's parties,start a sport,take a class at a college

if you don't start to become outgoing,then you can't find anybody


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great single guy, huh? You're in demand alright but I'm willing to bet you're in the wrong market.

as far as I've seen most good, sensible, reliable women; the one who are looking for a good man and not just a good looking man or a good man for the night - are not found in clubs or bars.

here's some places to try- coffee shops, libraries, church groups that  interest you (hard to explain why you're in the choir if you can't sing), parks, special interest stores (hobbies, pet shops, gun shows, etc.) any place where people with a common interest are likely go.

a few tips -

1. be yourself - If you are really a great guy and aren't afraid to have   honest conversations with the women you're interested in, you will find a person who will accept you as you are. If a person can't accept you as you are, move on.

2. aquaint then date - get to know someone casually before trying to get a real date going- you may realize that you'd rather not take it that far and save yourself a lot of trouble

3. if they'll cheat for you they'll cheat on you - don't even bother with women who are married or seeing someone else.

 


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