great single guy, huh? You're in demand alright but I'm willing to bet you're in the wrong market.
as far as I've seen most good, sensible, reliable women; the one who are looking for a good man and not just a good looking man or a good man for the night - are not found in clubs or bars.
here's some places to try- coffee shops, libraries, church groups that interest you (hard to explain why you're in the choir if you can't sing), parks, special interest stores (hobbies, pet shops, gun shows, etc.) any place where people with a common interest are likely go.
a few tips -
1. be yourself - If you are really a great guy and aren't afraid to have honest conversations with the women you're interested in, you will find a person who will accept you as you are. If a person can't accept you as you are, move on.
2. aquaint then date - get to know someone casually before trying to get a real date going- you may realize that you'd rather not take it that far and save yourself a lot of trouble
3. if they'll cheat for you they'll cheat on you - don't even bother with women who are married or seeing someone else.