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Great Guy but we are not sexually compatible!! What to do!

I met a very nice man.  We spent a while getting to know one another and he is great with my kids.  He is also very handy around the house and cooks a mean steak. Well, we finally were intimate and it was not good, on so many levels.  I figured we'd try again and it would be better.  It wasn't.  After several conversations about it and a few attempts to make it work, i just don't think it will.  I know sex is not everything but it is very important to me.  What to do??!!


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
You (corectly) didn't specify what went wrong..... (I can guess it's not you) but the vast majority of the problems can be solved today by a sexologist.  Don't give up, consult a sexologist (with him [preferably] or even without him).  When one faces a problem the easiest solution is to run away, the better solution is to try and solve it (when it is worth, surely).
Best regards,


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let me keep it short and simple, if u found a guy that is realy good in bed, he'll porbably be bad in other things or even a player, and since ur guy is of good material then try harder to fix this problem, it can be done, it just takes time and u have to wait for the good things in life


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TLC is not a limited edition

The answer lies within yourself.. Why do you think you two arent compatable..what is it that you seek in a lover that he hasnt got.. Just remember there is no single partner who is perfect everywhere..but ask yourself what is it wat you want. Dont just give up. Maybe the two of you being so perfect in all other aspects could teach each other how to love and satisfy each other in the bedroom. That could be fun .. Isnt that what lovemaking is? To teach each other how to love? Enjoy the teaching and learning.. Have fun!


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