I met a very nice man. We spent a while getting to know one another and he is great with my kids. He is also very handy around the house and cooks a mean steak. Well, we finally were intimate and it was not good, on so many levels. I figured we'd try again and it would be better. It wasn't. After several conversations about it and a few attempts to make it work, i just don't think it will. I know sex is not everything but it is very important to me. What to do??!!