man's opinion is of no matter in this matter. The Bible clearly states that you wait until your divorce is recognized and it also states that we should obey the laws of the land. You can hold out, it will be over soon. With respect, to all of you who tell this person it is between God and her, you are right but, that does not change the guidelines of His word between this woman and him. God's word does not change nor does He. If you think that just because you "feel" something is right means nothing. God's word is the Word regardless of how we "feel", so if you do what feels right and it is absolutely wrong in God's eyes then you have done something between you and God. Please do not encourage someone to stray or go against God's perfect will. Ask them to be obedient to God's word and that may see them thru to get God's ultimate blessing thru obedience. To all, I say this in love to you. Do not let your opinions that are contrary to the concrete word of God enable people to feel good about doing wrong. This is no better than the secular psychologists out there today saying "just do what feels right" and it will be right. So I guess if an orgy feels right then we are to do it and nevermind God forbids it. Love Mark