Given up

Hi Christopher,

     Has your wife been to her Gynecologist?  She probably needs hormonal therapy so she can enjoy sex again .  Have you been to a sex therapist also to help you both?

    You need to talk these things out so you will understand where she's coming from and the reason why she shuns sex with you. Are you still virile ?  Are you about the same age as her? 

     You  two are the only ones who could decide where your marriage is going.   Marriage without sex is miserable to either of the couples.

    Take care and try to understand your wife.  Don't consider cheating on her.  This will surely ruin your marriage.

Christopher, I can't answer your question because I am in a similar situation.  Can I ask you a question - what makes you stay married?

I'm not seeing a question here...are you asking if what you're doing is okay?  Do you want our blessing to cheat on your wife?  If that's what you're looking for, I'm not going to give mine...get a divorce if you're that unhappy, don't get back at your wife by adulterating her.