Girlfriend prob. please help

First off Chris, I feel that you and your girlfriend are to young to have a baby yet. You are only 16 and have so much more growing, learning and living to go before you need to start thinking about raising a child.

Raising a child takes a lot of responsibility and a lot of money.

It is great that you do all the things that you do for her, but there is still more to a relationship then just that. Try learning as much about each other as you can, likes, dislikes, why you fight and what it is that makes both of you happy.

Give it a few years and let your relationship grow before you decide to have a child.

Good luck and best wishes. 

Hi Chris,
Tiptopmanger gave you an excellet (and sensetive as well) answer (I credited him with 2 thumbs up).  I wonder where did he find that you are 16 y.o ?.  Three things bother be:
1.  That you are fighting a lot lately.  It that's the
     case why hurry and have a baby ?.  Better fix
     your relations first !. 
2.  That you want "to be as happy as we we're at
     the beginning of our relationship".   Why bring
     a baby if you are not happy ?  Only when you
     settle the relation and both of you are happy 
     you (both) should think of a baby.   The baby
     won't solve the problems between the 2 of you !. 
3.  That you don't want to loose her.  I have the
     feeling that you want her much more than she
     wants you (no offence please) if that's the case 
     she will "lead you by the nose !" and take all the
     time advantage of that.  That might lead to 
     unhealthy relations. 
To sum it up: Establish good loving relations between you and your girlfriend and only then think of a baby.
Best regards,

Thank you Oron and great response also by you. As always I value your wisdom and words of kindness. I found his age by viewing his profile, I do that often with questions of this type.

Hope you are having a grand day. 

You indicate that you (you and gf) are thinking of having a baby. You should explain to her that you oppose the idea because of all the fighting since it does not portend good for having a baby and sharing responsibilities. Is tiptopmanager correct that you are both 16? If so drop the idea until you both grow up and are ready to accept responsibilities.

my girlfirend wants to take a barke but not date anyone else.....i don't want to lose her what do i do

Keep doing the things that you do, an when she starts to fight with you, just grab her an hold her tight an don't let her go til she stops the fight. Show her that you don't want to lose her. Ask her why she always wants to fight, talk to her let her know you do care. Thats the best advise I can give ya.