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My Girlfriend is leaving over the summer...

My girlfriend Said the was leaving over the summer for her job and wont be moving back, yet she claims that she loves me, even though she chose her job over me. If she goes, I will only be able to see her once a month. I am afraid that if she goes, she is going to either loose contact, or find someone better. What should I do?

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A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. 

I actually think you're being selfish by even suggesting she choose you over a job that she clearly wants. Instead of thinking about yourself, think about how successful she can be and support her in that success. Enjoy the time you will have with her and stop over-thinking things. If she loves you, no distance will be able to break that.


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I say if you guy's love each other it will alll work out in the end!


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I didn't understand if she wants you to stay together? Are you planning on a long distance relationship? This is a very tough situation and in general I'm not a great believer in such relationships but if you love each other it might work out.

I think you have a few options:

1) Follow her to wherever she goes assuming she wants you to come.

2)Try and hold the relationship long distance. This will certainly be a test that will make it or break it.

3)Break up and simply move on. I realize that this is not what you want but unless you fight for this relationship it won't work.

Good luck. 


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Well if she loves you then there is NO ONE better than you in her eyes...and also if she really loves you she wouldn't be able to leave you without wanting you to come with her. Ask her if it's ok if you could move with, and if not you might want to start looking for another lady


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if your gf chose the job over you thats the choice she made based on her priority's. I'm sorry but you should support her for what she wants just decide that its best and move on to somebody who will want to be with you all the time. Shes just not that into you.


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This can go either way....just follow your heart- If she truly loves you, she'll make it work. So don't stress it

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