WOW!  I agree with IAmQueenBee -- you HAVE written a book here.  My suggestion....expand on it and have it published!  Then you might get rich and can influence others to your point of view!

I believe that God loves gays.  More than that -- I believe God loves EVERYONE!  (If God IS love, how could it be otherwise????)  Jesus was kind...and SMART!  He said, "No one comes to the Father, except through Me."  That means, everyone should study Jesus' words of love, kindness and fairness, and live by them.  But Jesus did NOT say, "NO one comes to the Father, except WITH Me."  That means, (as I see it anyway), that one need not become a Christian in order to get to Heaven.  So all these people who have, though the years, cajoled, implored, tortured and killed non-Christians in order to have them convert, are and have always been W R O N G !  I'd even go so far as to say that those who say: "All non-Christians will go to Hell" will probably go to Hell themselves, because they are negating Jesus' words -- AND his message of LOVE!   In the New Testament, it is stated: "IN MY FATHER'S HOME ARE MANY MANSIONS" (!)  Even Atheists have a place in the scheme of things, I believe.....because they make the rest of us THINK!

I know this is somewhat off-the-topic you wrote about....but I thought you'd like to know what your first phrase, "God Loves Gays", brought to my mind. God, to repeat, Loves EVERYONE.  At least in my estimation.  I hope in your estimation, as well!