Gaining Trust

It's really easy to lose someone's trust...harder to get it back.  The only way to prove to him that you're serious about not lying to him is to keep that promise and NOT lie.  For a while he'll be suspicious, for a while he won't trust you.  Trust has to be earned and you've got a long uphill road to getting it back.

 Hi,

   You may have a difficult time gaining his trust again.  He will always think that this  is your nature, just a morbid liar.   If he is really in love with you, he possibly will overlook your flaws of lying.  That also depends on what kind of lie you made.  You used the word never.  If you tell him that you will NEVER lie to him again, then the more that he won't believe  you.

Have to agree on this one.  Saying you'll never lie is one of the biggest lies in the book.  NEVER lying is not possible.  At some point you'll lie to him again, even if it's to protect his feelings, and if he finds out about a "little white lie" you told, it'll bring back all the feelings of mistrust he's having right now.

everyone lies in reltionships, sometimes to save heartache, sometimes to hide you're sins. it sounds as if you're lies may be serious. Gaining trust back can take time, sometimes relationships can never truly recover and it can be thrown at you in arguements. you should have a serious talk an lay you're cards out on the table. Let him know that what is done is done, you cannot turn the clock back or make him forget, all you can do is be given the oppertunity to make things up to him. Let him know how you feel about him and how you are not willing to let you're stupid mistakes affect the trust and love you both share. Ask him what he wants you to do to prove yourself and if you can put things behind you and start a clean slate.

I wish you the best of luck

once you lie its hard to trust anyone again to be truthfull