what can i do about my father's funeral costs? it's only 5000 dollars but i can never get ahead to help my mother to pay on it. he died in oct. but no payment still has not been pd. can you Help us? e was a very hard worker. he worked all the way up till his death. making every last dollar he could for his family. he loved life. his last wish for president was you. but if anything can be done or you could help us poor old folks here in ky. please call. 606-693-0142 Jessica strong Or deatons funeral home in jackson ky. 41339, under Darrell hensley " big d" oct. 2008. i wish you could help