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Do you think is normal for a married guy to call often a female that happens to be a good friend of his

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JayR
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Life is too serious not to have a sense of humor.

Liz-

Here are some quick thots.

  1. What is the subject matter of the conversations?
  2. Are there many and/or large blocks of time that he is unaccountable for?
  3. Do they ever see each other without any other one being present?
  4. How long have they known each other?
  5. Is she involved in a relationship? Not that Yes = Innocence.

I would be quite suspicious until things are proven otherwise.

JayR 
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dogbreeder
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Live simply, love generously, care deeply,

speak kindly, leave the rest to God.

If I was the wife, I will feel very, very uncomfortable.  How could a husband find time to call a female friend often?  He needs to spend his time with the wife and whole family .  I would talk to him about it without any accusations and ask him what are they talking about?  Does he call in the presence of the wife or he does this secretly?

It is not  a normal behavior of a sensitive and caring husband.
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Hello dogbreeder,

Thanks for the answer. They known each other for 20 years , the thing is this woman  is been divorced 2 times. 15 years ago while she was having problem with her 2 husband she made the move on my husband i find out this recently from my husband and he told me he rufused cause he loved me and our kids. Now occuring to my husband she`s happy with her 3 husband and the only reason they talk is because he does work for her and family, i don`t know what to make of this i only know they talk alot  even if nothing physical is going on , why the need to talk to this person so much.
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Sorry i meant to say Jay not dogbreeder
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JayR
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Life is too serious not to have a sense of humor.

Liz-

I think that dogbreeder's last line says it all. If you are not his best friend, then there is a problem.

"For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Luke 12:34.

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