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i am going to marry a girl and when i saw her i dont get any feeling for her.my parents are forcing me to marry her please help me and tell me what should i do???what were the drawback?


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"Questions are the creative acts of intelligence."

In what country do you live? In the USA nobody, including parents can force you to marry someone if you don't want to. From your post I assume this must be some kind of arranged marriage because you stated "when I saw her I don't get any feelings for her".

The bottom line is it is your right to decide whom you marry, hence the final decision is ultimately yours. Speak with your parents and tell them you do not wish to marry this woman and would they rather you be happily married for years to come or divorced after only a few months because they took your decision away from you.

Posted 2009-07-23T08:48:39Z
 
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
There are moments in one's life that one has 2B brave and strong and fight back.  You are now in such a point.  Tell your parents the TRUTH (that you don't love her, you feel nothing to her and you'll be miserable if you marry her).  If they don't chance their mind you'll hvae to dissapoint them and say loud and clear: "whatever it takes I won't marry her !". 
Best regards,

Posted 2009-07-23T14:43:24Z
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