Flowers to a woman you're having an affair with

In the first place, why do you have to have an affair with a married woman? Probably she chooses rather to have an affair instead of solving her problems with her husband, but an affair is creating another problem in order to solve another. From a religious point of view, one needs to shy away from going out with a married persons. On a different level, you risk being caught by the husband, and you may not know how he solves such problems - he might shoot you or harm you. In short, there are so many ladies who are not married - who are looking for someone to share love and receive flowers from them. Thanks.

Hi,

I certainly wouldn't recommend doing that. There are plenty of other ways to show your love without getting this woman into trouble with her husband. The truth is this whole situation seems problematic but if the married woman wants to keep this affair a secret it wouldn't play into the lover's interest to incriminate her.

You're having an affair with a married woman.The relationships are already endangered.

you cannot put the other person in to a mess.her husband will react and it will create misunderstanding among them. affairs with married persons happen everyday and everywhere. It is criticised only when it gets public. the hidden dangers keep the issue active and interesting.

the moral and ethics are a different issue. the same thing holds good when they split and once the affair is over. it can be very painful

Bad, bad, naughty, naughty boy.  That's exactly what you want--to endanger her marriage so that she'll be all yours.  That's a darned slippery slope there!

Has anyone stopped to think that it just might be

that it is HIS wife receiving the flowers?

And that he is asking for advise as f