Flirting: Ok or not?

I am a single (I want to stress that) woman with an outgoing, bubbly, flirty, fun personality. I have pretty much always been like that. I work in an environment where I am surrounded by men all day, so of course I like to flirt and have fun and joke around with the customers! I have gone out with and dated some of these men (customers) that I was interested in and vice/versa but nothing serious has come out of it. I get hit on alot and apparently as we all know guys like to "talk" so I guess I just want to find a happy medium. (I am who I am and my personality isnt going to change) the customers are great and nice and I can joke around with them and all but I don't want things to spiral out of control....and anyone getting the very wrong idea when all I am doing is joking around and goofing off with them. I know how most guys are of course, but the guys that I choose to go beyond joking off with is my choice and business, how can i keep it that way?

I'm looking for some honest feedback and opinions on flirting...

In your opinion.....

Is flirting ever "ok" and where should a woman/man draw the line? Is it different depending on the person your flirting with?

What are your personal views on flirting and what it says about a person?

Do you think/believe it makes a woman look bad, slutty, easy,etc?


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I don't think that flirting necessarily makes a woman look slutty, but I do believe that it can come off the wrong way. You have to remember that you are surrounded by men. So as soon as it looks like you are flirting with all of them, you will most probably be labeled and talked about. If a man thinks that you are easy, they will try to get what they can from you and move on. But if a man is intrigued by you, but you don't overdo it, then he will have more respect for you and want to get to know you better. Also, I have a rule, where I try to keep my relationships and my work seperate. As soon as you start dating customers, and more than one of them, you are crossing the line of innocent flirting and opening up the possibilty of being labeled as easy.

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