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Christin

Flirting

Hi,this might sound silly, but I like someone who tends to flirt with every woman he encounters, I don't know if that is how he is or if he is just trying to make me feel jealous, one time i was with him and he was kindda flirting and flattering a lady that passed by and then I was kindda angry, coudn't hide it, and he asked me what is wrong and I told him nothing I am just confused and he said is it because i was talking to that woman? I really like this guy for many other qualities, but why do you think he does that, or is it part of him. When i first came to him he started by flirting with me, and then i was very rejective to his style so he kindda liked me, and now when i let him flirt with me he does and yet with all other girls he sees? I feel down and hurt when he flirts with other woman. should I step aside?

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OronD

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Love is the battery of life....

Hi Christin,
That part of him and I believe you won't be able to change him. Now it's you to decide: Can you accept him as he is [including his good qualities that you like] and ignor that anoying part ? - if the answer is a clear "yes" go for it... but if you can't tolerate it move on..... (don't stay with him hoping to change him, you'll most probably [99%] fail !).
Best regards,

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dogbreeder

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Live simply, love generously, care deeply,

speak kindly, leave the rest to God.

I agree with my friend OronD, gave him 2 thumbs up. If he likes to flirt, you can't change him. On the other hand, some men or women alike, when they try to be nice to other people, they are misunderstood as flirting. He may not even recognize or realize that that's the way you perceive his actions. So if I were you, I would talk with him and tell him how you feel, and that he flirts quite a lot with other women an that upsets you. I know he will tell you he's just being nice to people.

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