i love my girl and she i very fit and healthy, however how can i tell her that i dont like her vaginal odor? its not a somthings wrong odor just a not fresh odor.
I don't think there's an easy way to say this. The fact is there might be something that can be done about it. The question is, is this something you've experienced in the past? If not perhaps she has a condition that can be dealt with medically. If you just don't like the odor in general I would just tell her and stress that you love her very much but that you're simply sensitive to odors.
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I have to agree with MasterofPuppets. There's no easy way to approach this subject. The only thing I can suggest is getting your girlfriend some fresh smelling soaps (that contain ingredients to kill bacteria-causing odors) and hoping she'll use them. (I think buying her something like Summer's Eve, a feminine deodorant spray, will totally offend her and probably stop you from getting any physical contact in that particular region for a very long time.)
Why are women so hysterically sensitive about this topic? Are you females really telling me that when you remove your panties and the parakeet keels over, you think everything is hunky-dory? Do blind men mistake you for the Fulton Fish Market? USE SOME SOAP AND WATER OR WATER AND VINEGAR, and you won't need that nasty smelling FDS or vagisil either. My God, use some common sense!
Maybe this will help--as most men (and women) know, ladies enjoy presents. Why not find a lubricant or "fantasy creme" you like and put together a ramantic dinner and "goodies bag" for her. Not only will she love the romantic side of you, but this also gives way to a much easier way of telling her of the issue subtly. I would suggest maybe you using the creme on her and making a "big deal" of the aroma and taste if applicable--tell her how much you would love to continue this type of thing. I hope this helps some. (The key here is to get HER to WANT to change the smell for some reason. psychology)
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Great answer, hopefulmom, 2 thumbs up yo you !!!
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