Falling for a married man

It means that you should run as fast and as far away from him as you can.

He is doing nothing but playing you. Don't be fooled into thinking he wants a serious relationship. Go find yourself some nice single guy to start dating and to fall in love with.

Good luck and best wishes. 

You need to step back from this situation and realize that you are putting yourself in a very bad situation. A married man is off-limits. Try to put yourself in the married man's wife's shoes. How would you feel if you found out your husband was involved with another woman. You'd be devasted. So do yourself a favor; run from this situation. Do not stay in contact with this man. Leave him and his family alone. In my opinion, I think it would also behoove you to seek out individual counseling. It sounds like you could have a self-esteem issue if you are attracting a married man.

Get a grip on your emotions! Remind yourself that you deserve to be loved by someone who can devote themself to you. You seem to be enjoying the attention that this man is giving you, your flattered and attracted to him but truthfully you know you shouldn't be this envolved. Even if this guy was to leave his family you would likely never make a trustworthy relationship with him. He is likely going to pull away if he has no intentions of leaving his family "I Love you" has too many stings attachted and you are now a problem. If he is having problems at home he is using you as an escape route. He can't leave without someone to fall back on... afraid to be alone. This guy may  have some feelings for you but apparently its only filling the void in his life. The two of you likely work together or see each other often enough to have become personal friends.  He has boosted yourself esteem temporarly but it won't last. Dating a married man will only drag you down and hard when  it crashes. You should step back take you heart out of the situation and distance yourself use your head on this one. Let him deal with his own problems you shouldn't be the one to fix them no matter how much you want to.   Marriage is very special and you don't want to persue something like this.   Don't become the cause of his divorce. Or Don't allow yourself to be use. You deserve better.  Move on and learn from this experience!

Married you say.....then STOP until and unless he gets the final divorce papers. and they are signed...do whatever you have to do to STOP any contact with him...how he feels is in direct response to where he feels it...

word of advice...."why do married men cheat"?????simple answer is "oppurtunity".....end of discussion....

He shows absolutely no respect for you if he continues his relationship no matter what you want to call "it"...as long as he is not FREE to be in it 100%......ie: Divorced

As "the other woman" you no doubt are "flattered."..don't be...it should be an "insult" until he is able to be there for you(if you make that choice) in no less then 100% of any action he has with you ...and..newsflash...he can't do that until he is divorced

Hi,

     I have to be blunt here.  First of all, you do not have any business entertaining a married man and hanging out with him.  If he is really interested in you, he would divorce his wife first.

    He may be using you for sex .  Please show some decency and self-respect.  What makes you think that he won't do the same to you in the future?

     He does not like to discuss it, so just break off any relationship with him.  Youll just end up being hurt and you are also going to hurt his wife.

Hope that you will take this advice for your own sake.

it means that he just wanted to get in your pants and you saying your in love with him is now a potential threat to his real love who's at home with the kids and by threat I mean now he's worried you might tell his wife. Otherwise when you told him you were falling for him he wouldn't have BEEN so quick to get off the phone with you.