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Has this ever happened to you ??

I dated this guy off and on for almost three years. One day I decided to tell him I didn't want to see him anymore, Their was someone else I wanted to date. Just to see if he would miss me or even fight to kept me ..well he didn't do either. No phone call nothing... I didn't hear from him at all..Its been a year..it really hurts...and I am having a hard time with this.


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That is why men think differently. Men think black or white, and no middle. The answer is yes or no. You made the wrong move, just like the rest of the women who think like you. And you lost the bet, keep it moving.
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A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. 

Honestly, what you did was really stupid. You tried to play a game and in the end, got dumped. No guy is going to hang around if you say you've met someone else. It's bad enough he got his ego bruised by your dumping him, but than you tell him you met someone else; that hurts much more. He's trying to save face by not contacting you. If you learn nothing from this situation, it will be a real shame.
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ElleJ
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To get what you've never had, you have to do things you've never done.

There is no way a boyfriend that loves you would not have at least asked you a few questions before exiting your life forever; but at the same time if you waited A YEAR for him to call, you just weren't that into him either. Was this a really serious relationship? It sounds like a casual "thing" I had with a guy I'd sleep with (whenever I was single) in college. I don't think you were the only one he was with. I made the mistake of fooling around with this guy on and off at 19, 21 and 23 yrs old. By 24, I would call him when I was in town but I never slept with him again. I stopped calling and he stopped calling me back. But if I were to call him RIGHT NOW, he'd answer and we'd start this casual thing all over again. It would forever be a lack-luster relationship.
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Life is lessons in love. No regrets. 

Playing games such as this shows some immaturity (relationship-wise). I hope that you are able to take a lesson from this situation and that things work out better for you in the future.
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