Ex text today

hi there i have written in befire about my ex last wk he tole me to leave him alobne for good , so i decided to do that and never get in contacy again .. out the blue today he has text asking for his suit back ( he left it when he moved out and said did not want it as did not fit) the rest of the text said that he wanted it for this wekend and could he come over to get it tonight!! what would do in my position , do you think he just wants to collect or there is a hidden thing behind it xx


Would you like to answer or comment?

Sign up for a free account, or sign in (if you're already a member).
Answer this question

Topics:

Share Send to a friend Watch Report
 
 

Posted Answers

Order by
 
Skitch
969 answers
801 thumbs up

Surrender.  Surrender.  But don't give yourself away . . . .

   ~ Cheap Trick ~

Honestly, it doesn't matter.  He is just jerking you around.  If he told you he wanted you back after dumping you, I would hope you would send him away.  Put the suit in a plastic bag with his name on it and leave it on the front porch, or outside your door.  If he wants to talk to you, he will have to act like an adult and not use excuses.  And, if all he really wants is the suit, he will have it and there will be no messy confrontation.
Posted 3 months ago ( permalink )
In reply to lou lou's question
Rated as
#1 out of 13
0
0
  Report Abuse  

Helpful?

line
line
line



 
Skitch
969 answers
801 thumbs up

Surrender.  Surrender.  But don't give yourself away . . . .

   ~ Cheap Trick ~

Oh, and as another thought, I would put all his things that he said he didn't want out there for him.  Let him realize that you are done with his games.
Posted 3 months ago ( permalink )
In reply to lou lou's question
Rated as
#2 out of 13
0
0
  Report Abuse  

Helpful?

line
line
line



 

i took your advice i have abgged enerything up - no more connections left now or reasons to text , and simply have text him saying your suit will be in a bag outside my window tommorow , i go to spain tom 2 so i will not have to see him collect it , i feel better now no ties to this selfish bloke any longer , thanks xxx
Posted 3 months ago ( permalink )
In reply to Skitch's answer
Rated as
#3 out of 13
0
0
  Report Abuse  

Helpful?

line
line
line



 

he just wants the suit. and he did tell you not to contact him, so have you replied yet? if you havent, dont. dont say a word. just leave him alone like he wanted. :) my ex did that to me. he told me not to talk to him, to have no contact w/ him. well, a few weeks ago hes like "your no longer banned from contacting me" and im like "like i want to now. f*** off" so... dont say anything to him. guys are like... butt holes! they are. :) maybe leave his suit outside incase he does come to pick it up? and maybe write a note saying "here." nothing more, nothing less.
Posted 3 months ago ( permalink )
In reply to lou lou's question
Rated as
#4 out of 13
0
0
  Report Abuse  

Helpful?

line
line
line



 

yeah , why do men do it ?? i dont get them one bit , i did text saying the suit will be outside , i go to sapin tom which he know about , so he knows i was not around anyway. i dont get them , still hurts when he texts my hearts beats fast and i feel sick , he prob wont get in touch again with me now xx
Posted 3 months ago ( permalink )
In reply to Me's answer
Rated as
#5 out of 13
0
0
  Report Abuse  

Helpful?

line
line
line



 

ps ... did you get over your ex xxx
Posted 3 months ago ( permalink )
In reply to Me's answer
Rated as
#6 out of 13
0
0
  Report Abuse