Jose. when you play you pay, you should have thought before you cheated that you might lose your girlfriend, if men did not putt theirselves in the position in the first place, there might not be so many men who cheat, I have this happen to me and once the trust is gone there is no goinng back, I do not blame your girlfriennd one bit, If you ask me 85-90 percent of men can't keep it in there pants, you did the deed, now you have to pay the price, ( GET OVER IT ) and go and find someone else to cheat on !!!!! Rita60