this is kind of what happened to my current husband.  Before me he dated a lying ______ well she got pregnant he went to ask if it was his she was already seeing someone else so she got a restraining order on him so he had to stop bothering her.  She got married had the child and had the husband become this girls father but when the marriage didnt work my husband got slamed with court after court hearing about paying child support, arrears , and ever since about now 12 years into this our lives is a living hell.  she's got all our money and the child and because we dont have money for a lawyer she's winning with all the lies so bottom line dont let the situation just blow over now that she's back with her husband demand a paternity test because if at the end of all this her marriage doesnt work she may come after you for money.  Im a woman so forgive me for saying this but most woman are evil and looking out for only themselves dont let her get you please.  concerned liann