It is quite obvious that this woman will hate any woman her son will marry. Unfortunately there's very little that you can do; it is an unfortunate situation that will have to be dealt with by your husband to be. It would be best for you not to come into any contact with her even after the wedding. Hopefully, she will come to her senses and realize that she is the one to be the loser. Your husband to be is to be commended for continuing to support his parents

Hi there, it's perfectly normall for a mans mother to hate the woman he's going out with and it sounds like she will no matter who it is. so i think you should just sit down with your man and tell him how mean his mother is to you and that he should seriously talk to her and make her stop, or you should tell him that your seriously thinking about doin something drastic. (you make that part up)

Because she's his mom, you have to deal with as best as you can, but your husband is the one that you have to talk to and have him lay down the law on her behavior. You are his wife. Just be nice to her and smile anytime she says or does anything derogatory. Then, in your thoughts you can be silently thinking what you'd really like to say to her. Your husband has to be a man and take up for you.

No, no, no, no, no! Do not just wait on your fiance to decide to talk to his mother that could take years. His mom should have been "talked to" when she hit his ex. The good news is, the reason he is still on the market is probably because mom ran so many great girls away. Don't be a doormat, though. Make sure he knows that it's nice that he is so family oriented but that mom has got to be cordial at the very least and they are NEVER moving into the house. It could be a long marriage with the wrong in-laws. Make sure you are his top priority. Address these issues now because it all needs to be discussed before you get married. My grandma once said, "Don't tolerate anything in the first two years of marriage that you aren't willing to tolerate forever.