i was dumped after 4 yrs, she just fell out of love.so after 2 weeks of no contact she writes how am i doing, i say thank you for asking in doing good. she says glad to hear it...., why does the dumper get mad when the dumpee moves on, should i say i was not good? do they want to hear that. she would dump me every 6 months and the first contact from her i would go running back, not this time.is that why.