Dream of someone dead talking to me

My ex-husband, my son's dad, shot and killed himself a month and a half ago. I did not divorce him because I didn't love him because I did with all my heart. I divorced him because of his alcohol and painpill addiction and liking to drive with our son while high and drunk. Anyhow. I had a dream the other night that he called me on my cellphone and told me that he is ok and when he shot himself and died that it just sounded like an airplane. (I have been worried that he laid there for awhile before he died or that it hurt and things like that.) He told me he is in heaven (also been worried that he went to hell because I was raised believing that suicide is an automatic ticket to hell. I have since read that God is way more forgiving than humans.) I tried to call him back, but where the number comes up it just said "call" so I was not able to. Does anyone believe this was him comforting me or am i just full of bologna??


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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

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    People dream because they are thinking about the person who passed away.  Somehow your subconscious is telling you that you should not worry about him.  You need to live your own life and have final closure with regards to your husband.  So it's time to focus on your own life, on your kids if you have any, and try to have a nice happy life because you were not happy with him.  Time to move on now.  Good luck.


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Your dream is telling you to have closure, and to move on with your life, and pay attention to your child.  You need to leave the past behind to reach a nice happy future.  You were not happy with him.


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Surrender.  Surrender.  But don't give yourself away . . . .

   ~ Cheap Trick ~

I believe that he was reaching out to you.  Did he apologize to you for the hell he put you and your son through?  I was touched by someone who died, and it was very, very real.  It came as a dream, but there was so much more.  There was a warmth and a peace to it all.  I think you should consider yourself lucky that you were given such a blessing.  You can stop worrying about him now and concentrate on yourself and your son.


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