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My boyfriend treats me like a queen. Gives me a lot of love, affection, and very attentive, but he is cheating on me. He pretends to be very devoted to me, but I found out that he is actually a habitual liar and addicted to other women. He lives with me. I have told him several times to move out because I'm not putting up with his cheating. He denies everything although I have proof. He won't move out. How do I get him out of my house without having to call the police?

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OronD

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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,

Sorry but I don't like your header..... I understand that you are mad at him but he is not your dog..... Treating well (as you describe) doesn't mean one is faithfull..... You are right not to accept it.... If you decided to split (I would do the same) tell him firmly it's all over and you don't want him to be near you. If he does, repeat your message, once or twice more, and if it doesn't help tell him that next time you'll call the police (and do it !).
Best regards,

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walter.davis08

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And how are you feeling today?

According to what you've written, you've already told him you want him out of the apartment; is that correct? If this is correct, your only option is to tell him that you will call the police if he doesn't get out (and give him a deadline date of when he needs to be out). And make sure you follow up on your words. Empty words are not worth anything and if he can sense your bluff, than he won't leave.

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jewles

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Don't hesitate in calling the police. If need be get a restraining order against him. If this is your home and he's just living there. Tell him sorry charlie I have more self respect for myself and have higher standards then to be made a fool over. Tell him to get a new life.

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