i'm a divorced dad and i love my 8 year old son dearly. I am fortunate that i see my son as much as i can and take him on holidays etc etc.. the thing though that eats me up is hearing him talk of his mums boyfriend... I've remarried and my new wife is great with my son and my son is great with her. The thing that eats me up though is that my son is spending more time with another man than he is with me. There is nothing i can do about it my ex derserves to move on too but how do i learn to cope with the feelings i have. I feel upset, angry, betrayed when my son talks of my ex's boyfriend and I know this is not fair on my son but how do i learn to cope with these feelings i have? how have other men coped or is it something i will never cope with? I'm sure one day my ex will re-marry and that could be soon and how will i cope then.