I have found in my life time that some people will use you for all they can get. They may even get good at playing psycological games saying they love you and care.. but always with an agenda, always with (their own) interest at heart. It's pure evil... and evil is always, eventually, Exposed! Run like hell away from this man. He has sown some really bad seeds for himself and his children, and now he only stands to reap what he has sown!

Be so happy that you are not him and that you are free!  Read your own tag-line, I like it! You are a very strong and intellegent woman with many more good years ahead of you!  Play it smart, protect what's yours, and keep your eyes on God. All of this has happened in your life for a reason, aren't you just dying to find out what God has instore for that man!?  Believe me, you won't want to be anywhere near him to experience it!