What rights do Power of Attorneys have and does a divorce settlement override a benificiary on a TSP Savings plan. My husband just died and I was POA. I withdrew on his account to pay for care, groceries and bills. I lost time from work. Now his sons from a previous marriage wants me to pay them back for the money I withdrew from his account. Also they are claiming a divorce settlement leaves them 2/3 of life ins. adn 50% of all retirements. I was the benificiary now they are fighting for it. What rights do I have. I live in Virginia.