you are not in love. if you haven't told anybody of your communication with her i am willing to bet that there is some inappropriate things being discussed on the web. show your parents what you have written and ask them to put a parental block on your computer. your emotions are not in allignment with reality. you have too much freedom to be using the internet. how do you know that she is 14? too many red flags here. stop all communication with this this girl before her parents find out what is going on and could possibly have you arrested if you are not 15 or are posting obscene correspondence.