Disinterested girlfriend

Never listen to men on subjects of this nature, all the answers ive read here by men are why men have problems that they do with women, you dont go to a mechanic to fix your hair , right?

Listen, people will tell you that you need to listen to her and give her comments etc. Any man that has been married for a while, like me, will tell you this. To get her interested in sex again all you need to do is be spontanious, romantic and experimental. Dont get caught up in a routine that will become boring. Women crave romance and someone who will do what they need in bed, listen to her in bed and do as your told and things will heat up fast.

Adding a third member to you romantic time is a definate death sentence for your relationship.

she may not have that great of a libido. its kind of like how guys try there hardest to be nice and sweet in the beginning, and after six months we get tired of "going out of our way". it's probably the same with her. she wanted to make you happy, and most woman think that sex is happiness to men. after a while it got tiresome and her true colors are coming out. what they dont realize is that men will view the decline in sex as rejection, just as women view our decline in sincerety the same. ive had relationships where after 2 years the only thing that was going right was sex, and we both definately had healthy libidos. im in a relationship now and sex is the major problem. are libidos simply arent in line. try and go a month without initiating sex, if she doesn't come to you, time to move on

Hi,

    I am curious what happened with her, are you still together?  My hunch is she found someone more interesting .  Please let us know.

Thanks.