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I have a 17 year old foster child (male) living in my home.  I am a 46 year old female with two children.  I had taken clothing I no longer wanted and had them in bags in the garage to give away. I went into his room and found one of my shirts in his room.  He had obviously masterbated into it.  Is this cause for concern?  It really shook me up and I have not confronted him with it so far.    He obviously took this item of mine out of the bag and brought it into his room.  I am now very cautious and uncomfortable around him and don't want him in my home anymore.  Any thoughts on this would be appreciated.


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I'm so sorry, I was a foster parent also, I would talk to his counselor about this or his mentor. I think you should talk with him, but don't embarress him by saying you masterbated to my clothing, say it in a loving way. Just ask him why they are in his room, maybe there another explaination to as to why there, there.

Good Luck

lipstick_addict

Posted 2008-10-10T14:32:25Z
 
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Don't know how is your communication with him. You don't have to worry too much into this matter. May be he has some other underlying issues that you are not concerned about. Being a foster parent, you have to intervene into the matter very efficiently and carefully. Programs like Home based intervention plan can help you changing his deviant behaviors. Like Home Intervention System which is developed by administrators of schools and programs for struggling youth and has been adapted for home use. The Home Intervention System shows you how to motivate your teen to make changes just like they do in these schools and programs. The System utilizes a simple but powerful Attitude and Behavior Modification Program

I hope this information helps you..

Posted 2009-07-04T19:36:32Z

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