Deal breakers?

Thinking back over your dating history, what are some of the reasons that you have broken up with boyfriends/girlfriends or decided not to keep dating a potential mate?  What didn’t you like, or what was missing?  And, more to the point, have there been any cases where you later looked back and felt, not necessarily regret,  but a realization that the reason that you dismissed that person was not really as strong as it seemed at the time?

 

 

And for those of you who are married, were there any issues about your spouse that really bugged you or felt missing?  What made you realize that you could marry the person anyway?

 

 

 

Thanks for your time and attention! 

 

Susanna


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Very interesting question.    Here are my answers:

1.  One who loves gambling

2.  takes illegal drugs, alcoholic or a history of alcoholism, smokes

3.  history of felony

4. presence of body tattoos, body piercings, long-haired

5.  does not care for oneself, very obese.

6. poor personal hygiene

7.  rude, crude and inconsiderate of other people, loud and obnoxious

8. not romantic and thoughtful.

9. a cheapskate, very tight, not generous, counting pennies.

10. not gainfully employed or financially unstable, does not know how to save and think of the future.

11.  has children who still live at home, has a lot of emotional baggage.

12. uneducated, has poor grammar

13. very selfish, into himself, always talks about himself

14. does not match my moral values, goals, has a different religious beliefs, different political inclination

15.  flirting with other women

16.  Is into pornography

17. one who has lots of emotional baggage from previous relationships.

 


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I have dismissed people for several reasons.  The last person I was highly attracted to and thought something great could happen between us.  But I realized she was childish, weak and into causing a lot of drama and problems.  As soon as she came into my life, I became progressively more miserable and depressed.  In Hindsight, although I was knocked down, it was for the best because it wouldn't have lasted anyway.


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