Daughter grieves over sudden loss of mother

Know in your heart she loved you. You were the most percious thing in her life. She didn't mean to leave without saying good bye. She couldn't help it. Don't cry over the fact she is gone. Be happy she was here. I know that is what I would tell my daughter. Embrace her life. Not her death. When you have children of your own tell them how wonderful she was and let her spirit live through them. I can not take away your pain. But knowing her should give you joy not pain and she would have wanted it that way.

Hi Kelli, ----------- I feel very sorry for you. Your notes indicate how you really feel. Please Kelli, your dear mother lived 57 years and you concentrate on the last days.... that is unfair ! ---- Please give it the right proportions: Concentrate on the nice, meaningfull 57 years with all the acheivements (e,g: creating such great relations with you) and look at the last days as the last chapter (not the main one). Concentrate on what your dear mother did for you, ment for you and the "treasures" she left you for life (rather than the missing "Goodbye"..... which is important and I am sure she would have said a big goodbye if she could). If you want send me (in private) your mom's full name and I promise to pray for her when I'll be in Nazareth or Beith-Lechem. -------- Be blessed,

I'm sorry for you'r loss!..it sound's like she was a great mother,wife,friend and person!..when I read you'r question I almost "teared" up!....any who!., I'm not good at giving advice!..but hang in there!..

Kelli, I know how hard the loss of a mother can be. I recently lost my mom in October to cancer and it's been so hard getting through it and the flashbacks of what this terrible disease did to her and how she suffered to try and get through it. I still break down quite often when I think of her or see something that reminds me of her. You've gotten some good advice already though which is what I'm still trying to do and remind myself of. Hang onto the good memories and know that she's in a much better place and is no longer going through any pain and suffering. Take comfort in that and all the good times you had together. I feel your pain and wish you all the best. I don't know if the pain ever really goes away but hopefully after time it subsides enough to make it bearable. Take care of yourself and God Bless you.