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Dating a younger man

I am a 29 year old female that has been dating a 22 year old guy. he is great in bed and has a full time job. every time a we have sex.. it is followed by deep conversation about what want out of life.. he even visited a relative of mines on the first night. we have an honest and open relationship and he is sexually committed to me but our label is not boyfriend and girlfriend and its a little more than booty call. I feel like he is trying to be at the same level as me money wises so it like a learning exprience for him..  sometimes i feel that he likes me more than i like him because he always wants to do things for me... am i reading more into this??


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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
I am afraid you do read too much into it.  I have that feeling that it is honest and pure relations.  I wonder why do you feel the way you do.   I know several married couples that the wife is older than the husband.... having a happy marriage....  I belive you love him and you enjoy being with him so keep on.  But if you still feel the way you do or you feel that this relation comes to a dead-end, better discuss it (open and deep) with him.... If you reach a mutual understanding that's GR8... if not, better split (as much as it hurts).
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orangepeel
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It's not about if you reading more into this or not. It's about really understanding and accepting what it is that you want from the relationship and then being honest to yourself and to him, both in words and actions
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Shannonr1179
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Age is a matter of the mind, if you don't mind; It doesn't matter.

I'm confused about what your feelings are? It sounds as if you have a wonderful man whom you are possibley misleading.  Not intentionally, but your holding back emotionally with him. If its only the age that bothers you relax. If there are signs of immaturity then maybe your doing the right thing  by holding back. If this is the case though I do feel you are gonna break this poor guys heart. So be conciderate and gentle and true to yourself about what you really want.
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isabella
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Dont let your maturity get in the way of you.....enjoy your company together, because it sounds like he really digs you, but the question is from me to you is do you dig him? he sounds like a nice guy....age does not matter your both in your twentys who cares.
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celeste moon
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That is so weird you asked a question like this. My situation is alot different. I'm 11 yrs older than mine & hes married to a woman my age. My answer ask him straight out. What are we? Could we be? Do you love me? Just be straight with him. No lies no bullshit just straight up. Honey you cant go wrong with that. Good Luck. Celeste Moon
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