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Dating one of my best friends

One of my best friends is a girl, I've known her for quite a while.

She used to like my best friend, I have no idea if she does anymore.

Should I ask her out?

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Hi,
In one word: Yes... in two words: Yes sure.....  But, b4 doing so better make this issue clear.....  simply ask her (in a direct sensetive way) if she is emotionally ready for a new relation and if she is out of her previouse feeling (towards that guy).  That's a good start for your relation: you show her the way to opness and honesty (2 very important factors in good relations).
Best regards from warm Thailand.

 


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My husband and me were best friends for years.  We talked each other through many relationships.  It can be a beautiful thing, you just have to make sure you it is worth the work, if not, don't ruin your friendship and make sure she feels the same so you don't get hurt


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If you really like her I would ask her out. You should keep in mind that there is a chance that if this relationship doesn't work out you might stop being friends in the end. If you are willing to deal with that I don't see what's stopping you from going ahead.


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You certainly can but check first with your friend if it is OK with him. Also she might decline if she is still emotionally attached to your friend.


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Like mentioned yes you can it a free country you can do what ever you feel like!

Be careful though think it over carefully , if you never expressed your feelings towards her before they it might startle her a bit. You should take in consideration that she might take a step away if she is not interested. These things are very delicate. Try gaining some more clues, signs from her before proceeding , ask her about your best friend snoop around a bit. 

 

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