Interesting. OronD gave a very good answer. mrankens gave a very good answer with a different opinion. How about if I weigh in with a third differing opinion? After all, it's a yes or no question.
Let's look at your goals first. You list multiple and possibly exclusive goals as: looking for a lifelong commitment and finding your soulmate. We probably don't share the same views of what a soul is and how it relates to other souls, but maybe I can explain how you may have many soulmates. Souls do relate to other souls, but each soul is here for its own purpose. This may include to spend a life together as a married couple, but quite often it doesn't. Take the life of Edgar Allan Poe, the poet and writer. When he was about eight or ten, he met his soulmate, Helen. About a fourth of the poems he wrote were about her. More than half of the love poems were about her. She was a very old woman when they met, and died before Poe was a teenager. This, to me, is a very beautiful thing. Sad, but beautiful, and the joy they brought each other, how could you measure this? This is one of many different ways soulmates can interact. I believe they can play many parts that are important to our lives, and that we have more than one soulmate. Each has a purpose in our life, and after we're all bodiless we can sit around and compare notes, if we have the need to. I predict a lot of irony when the time comes.
So, to me, odds are you've already met some of your soulmates, and will meet more in the future. None of them may be your future husband, though you may get married and live happily ever after. As far as getting married, OronD gave the best advice, if, as mrankens said, you can follow it without cracking up from the emotional pressure. If you are looking for a soulmate to marry, I would say to quit dating or looking at all. There is a reason for everything, and when the reason is right for you to meet him, you will. And probably nothing in the world could keep the both of you from knowing you were meant for each other. Just as nothing in the world could bring you two together before the reason is right. You have to trust your soul on this one. If it knows where love lies for you, it will point the direction for you to follow. Whether you can understand where it leads you, or how it leads you, I can't guess.