Kall, I believe this is the mating ritual of the frustrated adolescent, a species that roams world wide and does things that nobody in their right mind understands. It is the chase, the hunt. The males of your species seek out a cute girl. The females flirt and try to attract the best males. Playing hard to get is a routine behavior for the female teen. The females want you to be confused, because then you are more easy to control. They will preen their feathers for you, then peck you away. The answer ~ just deal with it and go with the flow. In the end, you will both end up with someone you love.