How exactly does one look gay? And who cares if he is gay? Is that a problem? I mean, he may be gay not feel like telling the world about his sex life, that would be pretty normal sounding, if you ask me. Why does everyone always sound so shocked after learning that someone is gay, as if they are learning that the person is going to die in 5 days. Get over it. Some people are gay, it only concerns them, not us (since we aren't having sex with them clearly), and there is nothing wrong with it.