Men and women are different. Physically, emotionally, logically. It's obvious, I know... This is just another way in which we differ:

Most men can have sex with it meaning nothing. For them sex is sex. They can separate it from their emotions. It dusn't mean love.

Women associate sex with emotional attachment. We find it a LOT harder to have sex and leave it at that. There is always part of us that wants it to have a little meaning, even if we knew from the beginning that it was only gonna be a one night thing... 

So men cheat more than woman because it doesn't seem that bad. It's about sex, not about betraying their partner, because in a funny kinda way they're not really betraying their partner. They can still love their partner and do the dirty with someone else, without that having an effect on their love... When a woman cheats it actually means something - their partner isn't doing enough for them physically/mentally/other... A woman's cheating is, in that way, a lot worse. Sadly, men's cheating is a little more excusable, because if it doesn't mean anything then are they really cheating (the way a woman would understand it) or are they jus giving into simple animal impulses??

However, if a man truly loves his partner he will know that, although it may not mean much to him by sleeping with someone else, it will mean a HELL of a lot to her... So a man in love won't cheat and not because he doesn't want break that bond with his partner, but because he doesn't want to hurt her... Call me a hopeless romantic, but I believe this with all my heart!!

Don.