always think positive!! my favorite quote to you would be ...... embrace the good and expect the worst.. thats life and it can be cruel at times. a long distance relationship is hard on anyone who really cares. but be real to yourself. if you were away at college and not training for the core and she were the one mandatorily away from civilization wouldn't you venture out and meet people. i'm sure there is plenty of guys telling all the reasons why she should move on believe me i myself have been there being married to a sailor and believe me i fell for every line fed to me until he showed me other wise.. now those tall tales by guys about my sailor dont mean shit becuase now i know how things really operate.time heals all wounds.. dont be scared to ask her straight out put your mind at ease!!